Being Real

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“What is REAL?” asked the [Velveteen] Rabbit one day, when they were lying side by side near the nursery fender, before Nana came to tidy the room. “Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle?”"Real isn’t how you are made,” said the Skin Horse. “It’s a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real.”

“Does it hurt?” asked the Rabbit.

“Sometimes,” said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. “When you are Real you don’t mind being hurt.”

“Does it happen all at once, like being wound up,” he asked, “or bit by bit?”

“It doesn’t happen all at once,” said the Skin Horse. “You become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t often happen to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because once you are Real you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.”

— From [tag]The Velveteen Rabbit[/tag] by [tag]Margery Williams[/tag]

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2 Responses to “Being Real”


  1. 1 Sandy

    I agree with you about this passage. This is a wonderfully tender story. I wish enduring the process were always as beautiful as the text, or at least that I could find the beauty in it. Sometimes becoming real is unbearably painful.

    You have a wonderful blog.

  2. 2 Sandy

    Wishing you a “real” and blessed Easter!

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