Monthly Archive for August, 2007

Finance Fridays 2: Living within our means

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One of my more discipleship and character issues is whether I live within my means. Although I value budgeting and living well within my income level, this is an area that always gets pressed for me. When my income fluctuates upwards, I find that my expenses can fluctuate upwards as well (usually at a faster rate). And this is not something that is usually done intentionally.

With the rise of the credit industry, living within our means has become more and more difficult. I don’t necessarily think that North Americans are more prone to live on stretched budgets, but our access to easy credit (albeit expensive), makes it easier to live in the red.

Living outside of our means will inevitably challenge our stewardship convictions. Living on credit will mean that money is more expensive, and we are spending money toward interest rather than toward Kingdom (or other important) work.

The value of living within our means will force us to live simpler, and to make sure that we are being faithful with the things that God gives us. If we are not faithful with this, how will we be faithful with more (Luke 16)?

I find that there are several challenges that contribute to living beyond our means:

  1. We compare ourselves with others. Rather than operate within our budget, we want to operate within other people’s budgets. Many of my peers have more disposable income than I do, and it is often tempting for me to want to have the same material success that others have.
  2. We don’t have accountability. There are very few teachers and prophetic voices that will challenge the notion that living beyond our means may be sinful and perhaps a red-flag of deeper money management and character issues.
  3. We don’t have models. How many people do I know that live well within their means? Not many! There are many companies and governments (including ours) that are operating in the red. And unfortunately, there are too many churches that operate in the red.

Rather than address the practicals for change, I find that I often need to address my heart. Why am I living beyond my means? In what ways am I being unfaithful with the money that God entrusts to me? How do I view having and spending money?

Second, we need accountability. Without accountability, it will be difficult to get out of the cycle of spending more than we have.

When we learn to live within our means, our character will grow in self-control, accountability, self-image, and trust in God for our provisions. My struggles in this area have pressed me to go to God and receive from God a vision of being faithful with what God entrusts to me.

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Why I will not vote for Rudy Giuliani

Last week, I posted why I will not vote for John Edwards. Today, I write my thoughts on why Rudy Giuliani will not get my vote. Since I am not registered as a Republican, I will not get a chance to select the Republican candidate for the Presidency. However, if Giuliani does win the ticket, he will not receive my vote (even under the guise, “He is the lesser of two evils”).

Though Giuliani had various roles on a national level, America did not really get to know him until 9/11. Some people probably had some thoughts on his leadership in New York City, but we saw the man’s leadership before our eyes through the events of 9/11

I recognize that Giuliani’s leadership got tested, and for the most part, most observers were glad for the leadership he exhibited during the days following 9/11. It seemed like he was quick to judge what was needed and how to set up a control center that would coordinate the various things that were needed to address the crisis.

Giuliani was also seen walking through the streets of New York and exhibiting the right tension of stability and emotions. We needed a stable leader and we also needed to know that our leader was angry and outraged. Giuliani did both.

I will not get into Giuliani’s record in fighting crime or managing the budget of New York City. Even if his record is commendable, he falls short of being the next president of the United States.

Giuliani lacks moral character. Although other presidential candidates may have some flaws in their characters, none come close to Giuliani. Married three times, Giuliani has been less than stellar as a husband. His first marriage to Regina Peruggi was annulled by the Catholic Church (after 14 years of marriage). His second marriage Donna Hanover ended poorly. This is the one that made the news.

He had a couple of mistresses (well-publicized) during his tenure as mayor. He announced his separation from his wife in a press conference, which apparently was news even to Hanover. He filed for divorce and married his mistress. Giuliani is now about a million dollars a year poorer, as he owes that much in alimony per year to his ex-wife.

Do presidential candidates have to have perfect marriages? No! But they have to have the moral character to lead our country. Giuliani has no respect for the institution of marriage nor to the values of reconciliation. The demise of marriage number two and the ways he handled it raise my concerns of not just his moral character (which is severely flawed), but his decision-making process.

It is concerning that Giuliani is running strong in most polls. It would be a tragedy for Republicans to choose Giuliani as their man. It makes me wonder how the party that tends to push the moral and character issues in the public arena, can realistically consider a man who mocks these values!

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Leadership Insight 10: Building Relationships

I recently led a meeting of a small team of stakeholders in our ministry. These students form what we call a “core team,” which is a team of young and emerging leaders. As a young and eager team of students, they are learning how to take risk in their faith and in serving others.

We studied John 1, and looked at the relationship between Jesus, Andrew and Peter. Peter is one of the heroes of the Church. Although he had several lapses of judgment in his discipleship, he is known to have been the founder and leader of the Church upon Jesus’s ascension.

But for Peter to have become Peter, he needed his brother Andrew. Andrew was the one who had to take a courageous step of faith to know and trust Jesus. Jesus spends about half a day with Andrew and Andrew is convinced that Jesus is the Messiah. Andrew’s conviction leads him to be the matchmaker between Peter and Jesus.

Although leadership does not have to rely on solid relationships, trust in relationships increase our influence in leadership. The leaders in my life who have built trust and built a relationship with me are the ones who earn a greater level of respect and are allowed a greater privilege in shaping me as a follower.

When we build trust, we build better relationships. When we have stronger relationships, our leadership gains even more influence in the life of people. One of the women at that core team meeting mentioned that by visiting her regularly and building a relationship with her, I paved the way for her to be a part of our community for the last several years.

Positional authority without relationship building will inevitably weaken the leader’s authority. Jesus could have called Andrew and Peter to follow him on the sole basis that he was God. But the Scriptures tell us that Jesus spent an afternoon with Andrew. We don’t know what happened during those hours, but I imagine that they built a stronger relationship.

That evening, we went to the dorms to meet new students. Rather than see ourselves as simply people passing out flyers, we saw ourselves as people who are building relationships and connecting people to Jesus

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Happy Birthday Layla!

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Today, Layla turns two. Happy Birthday Layla! I am thankful for who you are and pray for the ways you continue to grow. Oh, as you want to fully embrace your terrible twos, please don’t!

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Either this will make you feel old or normal…

Every year, Beloit College drafts a snapshot of the mind of the incoming freshman. Though these lists make me feel old, I particularly like these annual lists for the obvious reason that I am building community with freshmen. (FYI, the vast majority of incoming freshmen were born in 1989)

Here are some highlights from this year’s list:

  • Humvees have always been available to the public
  • They never “rolled down” a car window
  • Rap music has always been mainstream (They probably don’t remember, the weekly MTV half-hour show, “Yo, MTV Raps”)
  • They were introduced to Jack Nicholson as “The Joker”
  • Time has always worked with Warner
  • MTV has never featured music videos
  • Tiananmen Square is the site of the 2008 Olympics

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I recently stumbled upon Mailinator and it’s my newest favorite website. What Mailinator essentially does is give you a disposable email address that allows you to use when signing up on various sites. For example, you want to comment on a forum or register on a website, and the site requires email verification, you just pick up a disposable address at Mailinator and register.

Before Mailinator, I used to go through the painstaking process of using AddressGuard on my Yahoo account. With Mailinator, I can get an address quicker without the hassle of logging into my account and going through several screens of creating a disposable address. It’s bookmarked in my tool bar for quick and easy access.

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Finance Fridays 1: What belongs to God

I’m starting a new weekly post titled, “Finance Fridays.” I often scour blog and articles on the internet, magazines and newspapers, and people, for advice on various aspects of how to do finances. Shortly after graduating college with more credit card debt than I could handle, I committed to make it a priority to grow a Biblical view of finances and stewardship. I submit my weekly reflections on the topic.

How we see what belongs to God speaks to how we view our finances. For many years, I saw my finances and resources serve me. How I earned them testified to my hard-work, my luck and/or God’s gift to me. What was given to me was to be mine.

Some of the implications of this paradigm led me to believe that all resources and finances were within my power to disperse. And because the Bible had mandated a 10% tithe, the rest belonged to me. Faithfulness was measured whether I would part ways with 10% of my finances.

In the past few years, I have been meditating and reflecting on the truth that all resources and finances belong to God. In Genesis 1.26, God creates man to have dominion on the things that he created on the day before. And in his instructions to humanity, he offered them a gift all of the things that he had created, whether they be creatures or plants.

And as we walk with God through Scripture, we are reminded time and again that God is the owner of all things. In Psalm 50.12, we read God confessing, “If I were hungry, I would not tell you; for the world and all that is in it is mine.” And in Mark 12.1-11, Jesus tells a parable that reminds his audience that God is the owner of all things.

It all belongs to God. Our possessions, our resources, and our money belong to God. He has gifted us with various resources to live and to use toward his glory. When I forget that it all belongs to God, I operate with a scarcity mentality where I try to make sure that I am in control of everything. It limits my ability to be generous and hospitable.

But when I see God as the owner of all things, I recognize that my faithfulness is not measured by giving 10%, but how I manage my financial life in general: Do my spending habits glorify God or glorify myself? Am I using my money toward God’s glory or my own? Does my hope rely on my bank account or in Jesus? Does my worth come from God or from materials?

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Why I will not vote for John Edwards

I’m not a Democrat, nor will I be one before the primaries in February 2008. So, this is really a moot point, but a point I’d like to still make. There are three candidates in the Democratic party who (as of now) have a real shot at the nomination. And I certainly hope that voters in November 2008 are not left with Edwards as the choice on the Democrat side. If Democrats choose Edwards as their man, I will definitely not be voting for that ticket in November 2008. I am particularly troubled by two of Edwards’ positions:

  1. His platform to end poverty falls short. Edwards launched his campaign with a platform to end poverty. While such ambitions are commendable, the candidate’s credentials, experience and ideas fall far short of his desires. Edwards wealth does not disqualify him from having integrity in this issue, but his lifestyle and experiences in general do. Ending poverty requires more than just rhetoric and a change in certain domestic policies. If anything, the main element of ending poverty will require a heart shift in the nation (which politics is not poised to address). The haves must be invested in the campaign to care for the have-nots. The have-nots must be inspired to strive for better lives. Of course, there are systematic injustices and policy shifts that must happen as well. But those alone will not end poverty. A man who lives in the most expensive house in his county, who gets $400 haircuts, and has made his money through investments that dis-empower the poor is not my man to end poverty as we know it.
  2. Does he have anything to say about foreign policy? I’m not sure Edwards knows much about foreign policy. I think he can make things sound good (a must for a politician), but there is no content. Whereas Clinton and Biden talk about the things that need to happen to withdraw troops in Iraq, Edwards is content to jump on the bandwagon that we should withdraw troops from Iraq. While I appreciate his humility to acknowledge that voting for the war in 2002 was wrong, I am looking for a candidate to navigate our country through this mess. This is no Bobby Kennedy who inspired the nation and before his untimely death, spoke of ending the Vietnam war in terms of pulling out honorably. My fear is that if Edwards is elected, he would make more (not less) of a mess. My candidate for 2008 must have a plan to address the Iraq war (regardless of how he or she may have felt about the war in the first place).

Next time, I will talk about the one Republican candidate I will not be voting for.

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There are many things I enjoy about the Internet. But today, I had an experience through the Internet that will remain memorable for the rest of my life! Continue reading ‘The gift of the Internet’

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