Monthly Archive for May, 2008

Not a bad reason to pray

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My nearly three year old daughter is my resident theologian. After our nightly prayer, she turns to her mother and confesses, “After I pray I feel happy.” (Incidentally, she actually had been feeling unusually sad this evening before the prayer time)

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Leadership Insight 31: For better or for worse

The best corporate leaders never point out the window to blame external conditions; they look in the mirror and say, “We are responsible for our results!” Those who take personal credit for good times but blame external events in bad times simply do not deserve to lead our institutions.

– Jim Collins, “Fortune Magazine” May 8, 2008

It is tempting and common among humans in general to take credit for good times and blame external factors in bad times. But I like Jim Collins’s insight that leaders must take responsibility for both the successes and failures of their institutions. Leadership doesn’t necessarily mean that we thrive on success and only on success in our tenure.

Like a marriage, there will be good times and bad, and leadership is being responsible during both seasons. It is always tempting to give ourselves too much credit when things are going well and to blame everyone but ourselves when things are not going well. If anything, humility may entail that we should err on the side of giving others credit when things are going well and taking responsibility when things are not going well. I’m not suggesting that we engage in some form of poor self image, but that the first question we ask in successful leadership is: How did others contribute to the success of this? And when things are going poorly, we first ask: How did I contribute to this failure?

This is not easy. I rarely want to take responsibility for failure. I fear of what it says about me and my character if I am found to be an imperfect leader. But as Collins says, the people who are not able to acknowledge their responsibilities in failure do not deserve to be in leadership.

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Academic year in review

Some of our students compiled this video…

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Which politician will change your world?

Every single presidential candidate is promising that he or she will make our lives better if we elect him or her to the White House. He or she will give us change, offer us hope, make our breath sweeter, make us more prosperous, more productive, happier, better educated, holier and healthier if we cast our vote for him or her.

Presidents simply cannot change much for most of us. For the huge majority of Americans, how much we earn, how healthy we are, how well our kids are educated, that’s all up to us, not the federal government. No government program will make us middle class or rich if we don’t get educated in some way and work hard. No government program will make us healthy if we eat too much or smoke or drink too much, or don’t get exercise. The government cannot provide a lavish retirement for us if we don’t save and invest well. Oh, and all that money the candidates promise to spend? That’s your money, not their money, they’re spending.

In a free society, what we are and who we are depends on us, except for the very most poor among us, where the government can indeed make a difference. But for the huge bulk of us Americans no matter what any Republican or any Democrat promises, it’s up to the people in our house, not the White House. For most of us, what the politicians say is just sideshow barking, and when the circus leaves town we’ve got to get back to basics: work, save and teach your children well, and enjoy the political show. But it’s just show business, not real business.

Ben Stein, CBS News: Sunday Morning, cited in Forbes (May 19, 2008), page 22

Granted Ben Stein leans right politically, but there is something to be said about how much hope we put in a presidential candidate. I do think that who we elect to the White House does matter (a bit more than Stein’s conclusion). Had Al Gore been president in 2000, we most likely would not be at war in Iraq and would not have had the “Bush Tax Cuts.” It seems things would have been fundamentally different for us as Americans.

However, I do agree with Stein in how we may put too much stock in the power of a president or legislator.  We speak of Presidential candidates as serving sort of Messiah’s for us. We have high hopes for what they can and should accomplish.  I recognize that our leaders must inspire us to believe in them and their brand of politics, but at the end of the day, our candidate will have far less impact than we credit them.

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Leadership Insight 30: It’s Messy

Leadership is messy. There are an obsessive amount of books on how do leadership well, and sometimes they make it seem that if you just do the prescribed formula, then you’ll be fine as a leader. Many of the books are fantastic with great tools and insights that have shaped my leadership. However helpful the books and concepts may be, leadership is still messy.

My insight on the messiness of leadership comes in reflection about the role of our personal lives, the complexity of humans, and unavoidable variables that affect life.

Leadership doesn’t have a beginning. People don’t follow me because I have clocked at 7:30pm to lead and speak at my fellowship meeting. People don’t just listen to me when I’m leading a Bible Study. True leadership would mean that people are influenced and follow me in community. On-Time and Off-Time mean nothing when it comes to true leadership. My life matters. I could deliver fantastic sermons, lead people in vision, and pastor people through difficult moments, and yet if I do not have my personal life in order, I have broken trust rather than built it.

Second, people are complex. There are so many variables that lead people to make decisions and stick to commitments. No two people are alike, so how we think about influencing people requires us to entertain various methods.

Finally, there are so many variables that affect our leadership. Insurance policies usually have an exclusionary clause that takes into account “Acts of God” incidents that protects the company from having to insure against acts so extraordinary that humans may not be creative enough to conceive the possibility.

Leadership often presents us with “Acts of God” moments where all our assumptions are false and the rules no longer apply. For example, someone’s sin comes to the surface and they are no longer able to partner with us in leadership, or a crisis hits our particular ministry or mission field that forces us to change focus. “Acts of God” moments require us to react and lead through the crisis as best as we can, knowing that there is no book on the subject.

Leadership is messy. To think of leadership as going through tasks and following the formula set out by others simplifies and cheapens a role and calling that require us to get into the mess and figure out as best as we can.

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God cares about crude oil

I’m not much of a prayer warrior, but with gas prices up (with no relief in sight), I may have to join this group of the faithful. It seems that when all else fails (politics, capitalism, boycotts, economics), turn to God. The price of oil continues to rise, and people are now bracing themselves for $5/gallon at the pump. So my friends, why not join the “Prayer at the Pump”?

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Ten Verses That Convict Me From the Book of James

I’ve been co-leading a small group Bible Study this semester out of the book of James. My only impression of the book until studying it this semester is that it’s practical and that it provides a sort of “anti-thesis” to the argument that it’s all about faith and no works. But James and his letter have been dropping some conviction on our small group. A couple observations about James the writer: 1. He’s blunt and direct (things are black and white, no gray); 2. He seems to be yelling at me (out of love of course).

Here are my ten most convicting verses: (You may want to turn down the volume on your computer, James can get a little hot!)

  1. 1.5 If any of you is lacking in wisdom, ask God, who gives to all generously and ungrudgingly, and it will be given you.
  2. 1.26 If any think they are religious, and do not bridle their tongues but deceive their hearts, their religion is worthless.
  3. 2.6 But you have dishonored the poor. Is it not the rich who oppress you? Is it not they who drag you into court?
  4. 2.13 For judgment will be without mercy to anyone who has shown no mercy; mercy triumphs over judgment.
  5. 2.17 So faith by itself, it if has no works, is dead.
  6. 3.8 but no one can tame the tongue–a restless evil, full of deadly poison.
  7. 4.2b-3 You do not have, because you do not ask. You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, in order to spend what you get on your pleasures.
  8. 4.4 Adulterers! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God.
  9. 4.14 Yet you do not even know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.
  10. 4.17 Anyone, then, who knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, commits sin.

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