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What have I taught my daughter???

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A few weeks ago, Layla picked up the word “Pizza.” It’s really cute the way she says it. And as parent’s, we’re just glad she’ll ask for any food, since she rejects the majority of the stuff we put before her during a meal. She likes pizza (makes her dad happy, since he loves pizza) and she asks for pizza.

I took Layla out on a date for lunch, and ordered her a small pizza. She was so excited when the pepperoni personal pizza arrived before her, as she quickly put her hands together to initiate prayer so that she can eat. After we prayed, she went for the pepperoni and began to sing (Rhoda tells me that I sing when I enjoy my food as well). What did she sing?

“Pizza Hut! Pizza Hut!”

Well, there is a popular kids’ song that goes something like, “Pizza Hut, Pizza Hut, Kentucky Fried Chicken and a Pizza Hut…” This song was shown in the documentary “Super Size Me” to show how these fast food companies introduce branding at a very young age. How did she pick up this song? From her daddy. How? I realized that whenever she would say Pizza, I would sing the song (somewhat unconsciously), probably cause it’s cute.

I have contributed to the branding of my daughter!

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Adult Entertainment Industry Pays My Wife’s Salary

[If your search for pornography led you to this site, read the post and then check out how God offers you the better life]

For the rest of you: Do I have your attention? (By the way, Rhoda okayed this post and title)

The Adult Entertainment industry (much of it in the form of [tag]pornography[/tag]) rakes in over $8 billion a year. And much of that industry takes place in the San Fernando Valley—where I live and minister. The “Daily Sundial” (California State University, Northridge’s college newspaper) reported an article today, raising a few disturbing facts about my campus and community.

Considering the billions of dollars that these production companies, producers, and actors are earning every year, that money is coming back into our community in form of taxes. Take out the [tag]Adult Entertainment[/tag] industry (and/or if consumers stop paying for this filth) and the state and our community will have to deal with some budget shortfall.  The revenue from taxes of people’s homes, the products they are delivering, and the purchases they make in our community, helps pay for things like firefighters and teachers (hence why they contribute to my wife’s salary).

Taxes are a weird thing—our tax money goes to things we may not support and to which we may have objections. At the same time, all sorts of people and companies to which we object contribute to tax revenues that eventually comes to bless us (i.e. my wife’s salary).

What is most disturbing to me are two things that the article addresses: 1. CSUN graduates are involved in the community. The industry hires CSUN students and graduates; 2. CSUN hosts the Center for Sex Research and our campus library has the largest collection of pornography in the country. Now I know that I have access to the largest collection of pornography every time I bring up my web browser, but our tax dollars are also hosting filth in the name of research.

I recognize that sex research can be an honorable field of study, but I find it repulsive that collecting pornography is necessary. The demonic exploitation of people in the industry, the way it brings harm to families, and it’s addictive nature make this a gross use of our tax dollars and a gross use of research.

The Apostle Paul writes in Ephesians 6.12-13, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand” (NIV).

  1. This is not a societal problem, this is a spiritual problem. The way that pornography is embedded in this culture and in my mission field is a spiritual problem. There are spiritual forces at work behind the filth.
  2. As a minister, I need to put on the [tag]full armor of God[/tag], particularly because of the destructive and addictive nature of pornography.
  3. My campus and community needs the hope and healing of God. Jesus offers more than what the fantasy of pornography offers.

May the Lord bless my household to be a witness of the things of God. May our community on campus be a witness to the healing power and the satisfaction that is found only in Jesus.

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An abortion worth mourning

I am saddened after reading [tag]Dan Neil[/tag]’s opinion piece in today’s edition of the LA Times. His front page column (in the opinion section) titled, “And then there were two” chronicles the decision he and his wife “had to make” aborting two of the four living fetuses, fifteen weeks into their pregnancy. He doesn’t feel guilty nor shame terminating the fetuses because it was a medical imperative.

The article explores how the abortion debate became less academic and more real. The Neils were always pro-choice and this experience forced them to truly make the choice. An issue such as [tag]abortion[/tag] is real and not a theoretical debate for millions of women. I agree with Neil that the abortion debate stops when it’s my family. When Layla was born, I had a new level of respect for life. I had always been against abortion (I refuse to use the term pro-life because it has come to mean a particular theological/political marriage with which I disagree). But after Layla was born, I came to regard abortion as a gross violation of God-given life.

But I disagree and am saddened by Dan and Tina Neil’s decision and thought process. He felt no guilt nor shame Continue reading ‘An abortion worth mourning’

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The war on Christmas

This is supposed to be a festive time of year where we wish one another peace as we celebrate the birth and life of Jesus, but for many people, this a time for war. The author of Ecclesiastes writes that there is a time for peace and a time for war, and for Evangelical Christians, this is a time for war. I didn’t know I was supposed to be at war, but I guess I am. Christian and conservative leaders are working hard to remind me that we are at war with our culture that is trying to take the (excuse me for the pun) Christ out of Christmas.

As a believer, I learn how to submit, forgive, extend humility, and rise up above worthless squabbles, but during Christmas, this is our opportunity to bring in reinforcements and fight for our right to sing our Christmas songs in public schools, and out of spite, to wish people a Merry Christmas, not Happy Holidays!

Every year, we spend hours and hours wasting our breath talking about how the meaning of Christmas is being lost to commercialism, materialism, and liberalism (Though I seriously doubt liberals sit in a backroom trying to figure out how to undermine Christmas). As much as those things have permeated our culture and have re-invented/re-marketed Christmas, our faith was never meant to be informed by our culture nor our politics nor our schools nor our government.

The reason Christmas loses its meaning every year, is because I allow it to. I allow myself to get caught up in the lures of materialism. I allow my busyness and my pursuit of it to trump my attention to the Spirit of God and my pursuit of intimacy with Jesus. I am more guilty of undermining Christmas than all of those external and “evil” things combined. I have waged war on Christmas, and the enemy that I’m fighting is in me.

So when a teacher doesn’t allow young little Bobby to sing his song in class or Christmas-themed movies are purged from the prime-time television schedule, it is hardly the persecution of the Church and the war on Christians. So fellow Christians, take up your arms and fight against the war on Christmas that is within us!

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