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Leadership Insight 28: Spring Training

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This week’s leadership insight comes from baseball. I am not much of a baseball fan and am always thankful for friends who feed me enough knowledge to get by and/or inspire me to enjoy it. One of the things that I appreciate about baseball is the season of spring training that just ended.

Wikipedia perhaps summarizes the purpose for this week best when it says, “Spring training allows new players to audition for roster and position spots, and gives existing team players practice time prior to competitive play.” For nearly two months, players re-orient themselves to the game and to their teams. Coaches experiment with new players and new strategies in preparation for the regular season.

I appreciate the spring training season of baseball and its implications for leadership. I don’t know of too many people who set aside a couple months out of their lives every year, to refine their skills, build team unity, and basically train for when it counts. So much of my life feels like the regular season of baseball, where every thing matters. In the regular season, the coaches and players have to be on top of their game to make sure that they have the credentials for the more important part of the season (the part that earns teams a spot in the playoffs and eventually a shot at the championship).

My life constantly operates like I’m in the playoffs or in the regular season leading up to the playoffs. I operate with a level of stress and a paradigm of work where mistakes will cost me, and I have little space to be trained in my craft(s). In other words, it’s easy to go through life without space for training. Baseball is wise to create space for players and coaches to train and improve their game. In fact, some of the more technical positions (like pitchers) require that the players check in a little earlier than the rest of the team. What I like about this is that the more technical our jobs and our ministry assignments, the more training we may need to perform at our best when it counts.

Practically speaking

  • I appreciate the many opportunities for training with my organization, InterVarsity Christian Fellowship. We have training opportunities throughout the year and more concentrated times in the summers.
  • Second, I appreciate the resource and further education at Fuller Seminary. By keeping higher education in my life, I have regular input from some of the best thinking Christian professors, and fantastic input from people who are in various ministries.
  • Third, I am trying to keep up with the discipline of reading a leadership training book on a weekly basis. It has been fantastic to have this influence in my life and really enjoying the things I am learning.
  • Fourth, I have never done this, but I wonder if it’s fair to carve out a week (or perhaps even longer) once a year, where I am putting myself in training mode. I’m not sure what this looks like, but maybe having space where I am engaging in ministry in a different context and learning from others could be a great input into my life. (Just a thought)

Anyone have any other thoughts and leadership lessons from baseball (or spring training)?

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Leadership Insight 27: Experience AND Judgment

This week’s leadership insight comes from our political landscape. Democratic presidential candidates Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton have been jabbing back and forth on the importance of leadership experience when it comes to assuming the role of President.

Clinton released an ad asking the question of who you trust to deal with the unexpected conflict at 3am. Obama, for his part, responded with a similar ad touting not his experience but his judgment in that particular situation.

So which is more important, experience or judgment?

I’m not going to publicize my thoughts of which candidate has the upper-hand in this post, but to say that both experience and judgment are important in leadership. Both are values that require some sort of nurturing to assure that the leader is leading well.

Experience is not necessarily something we can speed up. It is something that comes with time. But experience does not necessarily mean good leadership. Someone can have twenty or thirty years of leadership experience, but still not have the judgment or even the skills to lead. Experience can only be stewarded by regular times of learning and reflection that makes sure that we are learning from our experiences.

Judgment is an important value in leadership that does not necessarily depend on experience or age. We can practice poor judgment, regardless of the kinds of experiences we have had in our lives. However, it seems that judgment is often authenticated by experience. In other words, though judgment is not dependent on experience, it is often enhanced by our experience.

I recognize that as I continue to grow as a minister and leader, I need to steward both judgment and experience. I need to continue to learn from my strengths and weaknesses, successes and failures. I need to learn how to practice judgment and to learn how to make better and better judgment calls.

Senator John McCain, the presumptive Republican presidential nominee, claims that if people are looking for both experience and judgment, then he is their man for the job. I suppose voters will decide whether his experience and judgment are right for this job.

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Leadership Insight 26: Passive Leadership

Passive Leadership may not be the best term to describe the leadership insight for this week. In the last few weeks, I have been privy to hear various students testify of their connection in community and growth in their faith in Jesus through our ministry and my leadership in their lives.

The odd thing is that when I hear their gratitude, I don’t think that I did anything extraordinary to love them. One woman shared how she is grateful that I urged her to check out one of our meetings at a hangout she came to with her roommate who was already involved with InterVarsity. I had met this woman at the donut shop and I must have made some sort of impression with my invitation.

I think of passive leadership as the kind of leadership that happens when we are not necessarily thinking that we’re practicing leadership in that particular moment. In other words, there are many things that I do that I know is an expression of my leadership role in this ministry. I lead staff meetings, run Bible Studies and preach sermons. In those moments, I know that I’m practicing leadership. But there are also areas like hanging out at a donut shop where I am enjoying the friendship and relationships, and thinking less about doing good leadership over donuts.

Leadership, like many other values, does not have an on and off button. The moments where I have wanted leadership to have the on and off button are the moments where I have resented my calling, was dissatisfied with my job, or struggled with my faith (whether it was a season of pain or sin). Conversely, the moments where leadership was never about the on and off button were the moments where I sensed God’s calling in my life in a clear way and enjoyed the means I was expressing that calling.

One of the things I imagine about heaven is that there will be a sort of mingling party where we can share our gratitude with those who loved us in extraordinary ways. My sense is that I will be approaching a lot of men and women who have influenced me in radical ways who may not know that they had done so. Likewise, I may meet some people whom I did not know that well who appreciated my leadership because of who I am and how I acted in integrity and outside of any official roles of leadership.

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Leadership Insight 25: Expression of Love

When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my lambs.” A second time he said to thim, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Tend my sheep.” He said tot him the third time, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” Peter felt hurt because he said to him the third time, “Do you love me?” And he said to him, “Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my sheep. Very truly, I tell you, when you were younger, you used to fasten your own belt and to go wherever you wished. But when you grow old, you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will fasten a belt around you and take you where you do not wish to go.” (He said this to indicate the kind of death by which he would glorify God.) After this he said to him, “Follow me.”

John 21.15-19

In John 21, Jesus asks Peter three times whether Peter loved him. And three times Peter answers that he does, and three times Jesus challenges him to tend or feed the sheep (which presumably are the people under Jesus’ leadership/authority). Peter and Jesus needed a moment to reconcile what had happened a few days earlier where Peter denied even knowing Jesus.  Three times Peter betrayed Jesus and three times Jesus invites Peter to re-affirm his commitment and love toward him.

Jesus may be asking a simple enough question about love, but the implications of loving Jesus impress leadership upon Peter. Peter would soon become the leader of the community that Jesus had formed. Because Peter loves Jesus, he is given authority to lead the people of God toward the purposes of God.

There are probably various ways of reading the text and some may read an ‘if-then’ statement into that interaction. If Peter loves Jesus, then he would feed the sheep. But I don’t see it that way, Peter is obliged to lead because leadership would be an expression of his love to Jesus.

This reading of the passage is shaping me in this season where I am inviting young students to consider leading on campus. Too many people may lead for wrong reasons: Whether it is pride, addiction to power, desire for significance, or to pay God back (He’s done so much for me, this is the least I can do). At it’s core, we lead because we love Jesus.

The moments of deep intimacy with Jesus propel me to lead the people of God toward the purposes of God. The moments where I do not sense any love toward Jesus, leadership is a chore.

Leadership has to come out of a deep sense of love for Jesus. Ministry is demanding and there are far too many needs that challenge how I spend my time. I can lie to myself and believe that my tank is big enough and full enough to survive any season of ministry—that my focus needs to be on others and not on my relationship with Jesus. We love and lead people because we love Jesus.

Jesus asks us, “Do you love me?”

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Leadership Insight 24: Offerings

My supervisor often reminds me that I have much more to offer others (in terms of spiritual leadership) than I think I do. I can gather some of the reasons why I hesitate in thinking that God’s work in my life and through my life is that easily transferable or good for others. Some of it has to do that I have mixed opinions of the art of self-promoting what I want to offer others. Some of it has to do that I’m not sure how to translate what I’m learning to be of value to others. And I think some of it is that I feel like many areas of my leadership are still in the ‘beginnings’ stages, making me feel a bit unprepared to lead.

Recently, a young couple asked Rhoda and I to serve as their pre-marital counselors. While we were honored to be given such a privileged voice in their lives, we were also anxious to be invited into this role. Can we offer them anything? This couple is making the most important decision of their lives and we have the invitation to shape it for the better. I may know how to disciple someone in prayer or in studying the Bible, but marriage is a whole new ball game for me.

In thinking through the decision to serve in this capacity, I came to two conclusions:

  1. I can offer what has been offered to me. God has taught us a lot about marriage. We have had to learn how to reconcile conflict and serve one another. We have had to work through expectations and assumptions. We are not perfect, but God has done a good work in us.
  2. Leadership will always stretch us into new territory. God leads the Israelites to the edges of the Red Sea and asks whether they would trust him to take them across it when the Egyptian army is in hot pursuit. The Israelites had to struggle whether God would be faithful to save them from the army. In my experience of leadership, it seems that stretching into new contexts is normal. When I am stretched in a particular context, I learn more about myself and more about God.

I love that I get to serve in shaping this couple’s marital foundations. This ministry opportunity has led to me to reflect and be grateful for the ways that God has been good to me, and has stretched me to seek God’s wisdom and insights in a new territory.

Our offerings rest on knowing God’s goodness to us and being diligent to seek God in the new things that he is doing. Take those away, and we are right to conclude that we have little to offer people.

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Leadership Insight 23: What McCain and Obama teach me about leadership

The campaign strategies of John McCain and Barack Obama in New Hampshire provide some fodder for leadership insight for this week. As of Monday January 7, 2008, both Obama and McCain are in the lead in their respective parties in the New Hampshire primary race. Even a month ago, these men were running at least 10 points behind the leader. What happened? Continue reading ‘Leadership Insight 23: What McCain and Obama teach me about leadership’

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Leadership Insight 22: Learning by Reading

I love browsing books at bookstores and I enjoy the process of building a library. Unfortunately, I’m not that great of a reader, especially when it comes to fiction. I have tried to make more room in my life for books, but those things tend to be pushed to the side, when life feels busy.

What I have discovered is that when I brush reading aside, I rob myself of learning from great and diverse people. Books have a way to teach us things to which we may not have access in our lives. (I recognize that I don’t need to provide an apology for reading) Last semester, I learned (or rather re-learned) an important insight to leadership: reading.

There are some fantastic books that provide insights in leading and influencing people toward transformation and toward God. Some of these books are overtly about leadership and others require the reader to search for the important nuggets of truth. If I want to grow as a leader, I need to incorporate a plan to read and to reflect on what I’m reading.

Having said that, I recognize that not every book I read is actually  a great book. One of the things I wish I had been taught in High School was to learn how to read better. I have this notion that I have to read every word of a book so that I am satisfied that I had actually read the book. What I learned in a seminary course a few years back, that there are different ways to read a book to glean it for its wisdom. There are a few books out there that teach principles of reading. One I read and recommend is Bobby Clinton’s Reading on the Run.  It’s a short and worthwhile read.

To learn by reading, there are several things that I have incorporated into my life:

  • Schedule in reading time. Reading can often times feel like a thing that we do on the side. We read it before we go to bed or when we have a break. What I have decided to do this academic year is to incorporate reading into my schedule. I schedule reading times like I schedule appointments. They are an important part of my development and my leadership.
  • Stop reading. I am at peace to put a book down if I don’t feel like it’s not that great of a read.
  • Learning reflections and book reviews. I keep a log of books and do book reviews for every book I read for ministry and leadership insights. I have a folder on my computer just for book reviews. I write what I liked about the book, what I learned and some quotes that I thought were interesting. Check out my library for some examples of my book reviews.
  • Read the new stuff and the classics. I was browsing a local bookstore’s business management section recently (where most books on leadership are found) and it can be overwhelming to note the number of books on leadership. And these days, it seems like everyone wants to put out a book on leadership. There are a lot of resources on leadership and a lot of these resources are great books written years ago.
  • Read biographies. Biographies are some of the greatest ways to learn about how people handled leadership. For example, last year I was struck by the ministry, faith and leadership of John Wesley.

Last spring, I read Go, Put your Strengths to the Test. I learned some great insights from that book, but I have to admit that it was one of those books that I decided I did not need to read it in its entirety to glean lessons of leadership. During the summer, our divisional staff team read Transforming Leadership. This fall, I read different sections of The Fifth Discipline. It’s not a book you are supposed to read cover to cover, but a great book to learn about learning.

This winter, I’m reading C. Stacey Woods and the Evangelical Rediscovery of the University by A. Donald MacLeod. It’s a biography on InterVarsity/USA’s founder and first president. I read parts of it for a paper I wrote last month, but I’d like to read it through to learn about the history of my organization and the guiding convictions of Woods. If you are interested in learning together, feel free to drop me an email and I’d be glad to learn with others.

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Leadership Insight 20: Ministry of Absence

Why is it that some of the greatest moments of the life of my community happen in my absence? I recall several moments in recent memory, where something extraordinary happened and I missed it. Just recently, I was told by the leader of our newest community at LA Pierce College that the Bible Study was “awesome.” She told me how people were engaged with one another and with the text that they were studying. I had missed it and I could only celebrate on the report I heard.

The following week, when I attended the Bible Study, it was not very exciting. The leader told me after the Bible Study that she was disappointed because it did not compare to the previous week’s study. People often have significant spiritual and leadership experiences outside of my (the leader’s) presence.

A spiritual director once mentioned to me that I would have to trust that God would be at work both in my presence and my absence. I can be aware of how I am supposed to minister in my presence, but it has been much more faith stretching to believe that God can work in my absence. He clearly can and does.

There are two stories out of the life of Jesus that illustrate this insight well—Luke 10 and John 9. In Luke 10, Jesus sends his disciples to minister. He equips them, exhorts them and sends them to the various towns. When these disciples return, they are full of joy. They saw God’s power. Jesus did not accompany them on the ministry trips. They saw the power of God apart from Jesus. In John 9, when a blind man is healed, he suffers through considerable persecution. Jesus is nowhere to be found as the man defends the healing. The man’s faith and testimony grows apart from Jesus’s presence.

In both these stories, Jesus’s absence facilitates significant faith and leadership. Those who are following Jesus are seeing their faith and resolve strengthened apart from Jesus’s presence.

But Jesus is not completely absent in these stories. He seems to leverage his absence, rather than simply disappear and enjoy some much needed vacation. When the disciples return from their ministry assignment in Luke 10 and when the formerly blind man in John 9 is kicked out of the temple, they are met by Jesus. He receives them and he interprets for them their experience. In the case of Luke 10, he gives them a spiritual insight for their ministry. And in John 9, Jesus reveals himself to be the one worthy to be worshiped.

Absence without debrief is wasteful. People will see faith and leadership emerge when we are not present. However, if it is not debriefed well, they may not capitalize on those lessons, rendering those experiences useless.

I try to debrief every Bible Study with the leader at LA Pierce. She and I both know that I do not plan on being present at every Bible Study she leads. However, I intend to leverage my absence to develop more faith and leadership in her.

I particularly sense that doing so is most wise in the context of LA Pierce. In a few months, this leader will graduate and transfer to a four-year school outside of my leadership influence. She will have a choice within her new context to either practice faith and leadership or to shrink back. She will not be able to rely on my leadership in her new context. My hope is that her development at LA Pierce will prepare her not only for her new context, but for life.

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Leadership Insight 19: Rhythm of Work

I came across an article in “Fortune” about hotelier Ian Schrager (”Fortune”, November 26, 2007, Page 44). As chairman and CEO of his own company in the hotel industry, he is a busy man. “Fortune” interviewed him regarding how his work habits that I thought were helpful and insightful.

First, he manages accesses of communication. Only a few people “at the highest levels” have his BlackBerry address. He said that he changes his address about once a year because over the course of time, that exclusivity gets eroded. There is some wisdom in not allowing everyone to have access to us all the time. In an age where it is easy to get connected and be found in multiple ways, there is some wisdom to limit access. First, it increases the value when we do give access to certain people and second, it allows us to have a better way of controlling how we use our time. Steven Covey in his book Seven Habits of Highly Effective People contrasts the important with the urgent. Every form of communication feels urgent to me all the time, and I wonder if there is some wisdom in learning how to manage the various ways people can get in touch with us. For example, I have email, AIM, Facebook, cell-phone, and a house-line. Is there a way to use these mediums in a way that would make me more effective? Am I making it more difficult to have a rhythm of work and life to prioritize the important?

Second, he only calls meetings that are necessary. In other words, people are not meeting for the sake of meetings. As a leader who attends meetings and often has to run meetings, this is an important insight for me. I don’t want to waste anyone’s time and I want to make sure to run excellent meetings where people leave having been blessed by those meetings.

Third, Schrager values being on the field and not at his desk. He said, “I fight not to get absorbed by administrative detail and turn into a desk jockey.” Though this principle isn’t as relevant for me since I’m “on the field” a lot (I’m even considered “field staff” by the national organization), I do have plenty of administrative details at hand. What I have been trying to do is to do most of my work on campus rather than at home. Whether it is responding to email, preparing a Bible Study, planning a meeting, or even meeting with my supervisor, I have done a lot of those things on campus among students. I find that I accomplish more and that my vision and passion remain focused on the campus.

Fourth, he stays relevant with pop culture. This should be a no-brainer for people in ministry, particularly among youth. He is a pop-culture anthropologist. He doesn’t just get interested in a new fad, but he reflects why is is a phenomenon. He said, “[Fads] are a manifestation of something going on in our culture.” The better anthropologist I am of my culture, the better I can articulate a relevant gospel.

Fifth, he makes lists. Every Sunday, he plans out the coming week and makes a list of all the things that need to get done for the week. He has both a long-term and a short-term list. He even uses different colored pens to indicate the priority of the things that need to get done. I once heard a management coach say that an hour spent planning once a week will save several hours of inefficiency during the week. There is a lot of truth to that. The times when I have planned out my coming week and created to do lists and planned them in, I have found myself most satisfied with my rhythm of rest and work.

Finally, Schrager values vacations. In other words rest is important, not to just veg out, but he finds that rest makes him much more effective at what he does. He has the luxury of taking a vacation every six weeks. I’m not sure I can do that, but I can take a prayer retreat every couple months and vacations a couple times a year. Physiologists tell us that our bodies grow when we rest (sleep). I think it’s true that we often grow when we have space to get away and get perspective on our work, our ministry, our leadership and our personal life.

Schrager drops some helpful insights. They are by no means the final say on staying efficient. I appreciate what this 61 year old leader has learned of management and leadership.

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Leadership Insight 18: On Guard for Life

I recently caught a news story about yet another sex scandal that has rocked a church. Worshipers at Cathedral of the Holy Spirit at Chapel Hill Harvester Church have recently learned that their founding pastor (now 80) was involved in several extra-marital relationships during his tenure. At their height, the church had 10,000 people a week worshiping in Atlanta.

The current pastor, D.E. Paulk, recently learned that his biological father was the founder of the church whom he had known as his uncle. Earl Paulk had been involved in several affairs through the course of his life, and had coerced and manipulated women to believing that salvation would only be found by having sex with him.

It is clear that Earl Paulk has undealt character issues. Yet as a fallen, deceptive and sinful man, he has shepherded a Mega-Church in Atlanta. He is eighty years old and the truth is just coming to the surface. His entire reputation and leadership and legacy will be remembered by his character.

The truth is that our character will influence our legacy. We will be remembered by our character issues. But character is not something that we deal with at one point of our lives, but something we have to address for life. As leaders, we have to be on guard for our entire lives. As a male leader, I especially recognize the power of sexual sin and its seductions. I have to be on guard every day for the ways that various sins will want to influence me.

This recent scandal (and I presume that it won’t be the last of Christian leaders who fall to sexual temptation) is a wake-up call to be on guard for life. Anyone who thinks that he or she is immune to such temptations is a fool. We are all capable of sin. We need the humility to pay attention to the ways we are susceptible to sin and the discipline to keep watch.

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