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Leadership Insight 25: Expression of Love

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When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my lambs.” A second time he said to thim, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Tend my sheep.” He said tot him the third time, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” Peter felt hurt because he said to him the third time, “Do you love me?” And he said to him, “Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my sheep. Very truly, I tell you, when you were younger, you used to fasten your own belt and to go wherever you wished. But when you grow old, you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will fasten a belt around you and take you where you do not wish to go.” (He said this to indicate the kind of death by which he would glorify God.) After this he said to him, “Follow me.”

John 21.15-19

In John 21, Jesus asks Peter three times whether Peter loved him. And three times Peter answers that he does, and three times Jesus challenges him to tend or feed the sheep (which presumably are the people under Jesus’ leadership/authority). Peter and Jesus needed a moment to reconcile what had happened a few days earlier where Peter denied even knowing Jesus.  Three times Peter betrayed Jesus and three times Jesus invites Peter to re-affirm his commitment and love toward him.

Jesus may be asking a simple enough question about love, but the implications of loving Jesus impress leadership upon Peter. Peter would soon become the leader of the community that Jesus had formed. Because Peter loves Jesus, he is given authority to lead the people of God toward the purposes of God.

There are probably various ways of reading the text and some may read an ‘if-then’ statement into that interaction. If Peter loves Jesus, then he would feed the sheep. But I don’t see it that way, Peter is obliged to lead because leadership would be an expression of his love to Jesus.

This reading of the passage is shaping me in this season where I am inviting young students to consider leading on campus. Too many people may lead for wrong reasons: Whether it is pride, addiction to power, desire for significance, or to pay God back (He’s done so much for me, this is the least I can do). At it’s core, we lead because we love Jesus.

The moments of deep intimacy with Jesus propel me to lead the people of God toward the purposes of God. The moments where I do not sense any love toward Jesus, leadership is a chore.

Leadership has to come out of a deep sense of love for Jesus. Ministry is demanding and there are far too many needs that challenge how I spend my time. I can lie to myself and believe that my tank is big enough and full enough to survive any season of ministry—that my focus needs to be on others and not on my relationship with Jesus. We love and lead people because we love Jesus.

Jesus asks us, “Do you love me?”

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Thanksgivings

“Eddy, you need a bigger house!” Kaitlyn told me in response to our dinner guests. Maybe she’s right.

On Monday, we hosted a Thanksgiving Feast for our community of students. Over 50 people packed into our home for food and fun. Because it was potluck style, students brought most everything except the meat. I cooked up two 18 pound turkeys and a slab of ham. Since our living room is not big enough for the army of people we expected, we also cleared out the garage and set up a few chairs to spread the crowd all over the house.

Thanksgiving 2

Thanksgiving 1

I’m thankful to God for the ways he has formed our community this fall. Students are enjoying the community they are building and the friendships that I imagine will last a lifetime. The feast on Monday is a healthy and necessary picture of how God is blessing CSUN and Pierce College students in community. In addition to many of the regulars, a handful of new students joined us for the day. I’m encouraged that students feel comfortable inviting their friends to our house and a Christian event in general.

Apart from the encouragement that comes with the numbers, I am thankful and encouraged to see people enjoying the company of friends. These friendships will be a blessing now and a blessing for years to come. How exciting!

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The Launch at Pierce College

Pierce

On Monday, we had our first small group at Pierce College. I believe InterVarsity had a presence at Pierce (perhaps 40 years ago) but it had disengaged from the campus for many years now.

The young student leader looked nervous at first (especially since the door to the meeting room was locked), but she worked through that to help people feel comfortable and connected. We had 10 students at our first meeting, and it was great to hear people share about what a Christian community would mean to them at the community college.

As I walked on this campus of nearly 25,000 students, I could not but pray and ask God to raise disciples who would make an impact on campus and beyond. God’s stretching my leadership and calling, and I love to have eyes to see God at work.

At the end of our small group meeting, I gave the group a closing exhortation that numbers will never tell the whole story of God’s work on campus and we are not striving for a large group for the sake of a large group. Jesus invested his time and energy and gave his best to a small group of people, and one of his powerful teachings was the parable of the mustard seed which may be the smallest seed, but would eventually grow to be a blessing to its surroundings.

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Blessing Pierce College

I am writing from Pierce College. I’ve been on campus before, but this is the first time I’m on campus for ministry purposes, as I am about to meet with a student who will launch InterVarsity’s ministry on this community college campus.

Our ministry at Pierce will operate well with our work at CSUN. The vast majority of the students at this suburban community college in Woodland Hills will end up at CSUN. The students who attend Pierce will know plenty of people at CSUN and the cultures of the schools are somewhat similar. It makes sense for us to develop an InterVarsity ministry on this campus.

I have always enjoyed being on more than one campus. I find that being on multiple campuses refines how I should be spending my time and refines my calling as a campus minister. By being on two campuses, I prioritize leadership development and I entrust more to students.

Though my primary focus in this season of life will remain to lead and develop the ministry at CSUN, I want God to break and expand my heart for the 25,000+ students on this campus. It is exciting that the community at CSUN is already on the move blessing a pioneering work. I feel like I’m part of the church in Antioch, ready to send out and bless Barnabas on Paul as they sojourn to new territories to preach the gospel. The church in Antioch was still in its infancy (compared to the mother church in Jerusalem), yet it chose to export its best to bless the known world.

Our strategy will be to keep it fairly simple at Pierce, launching the ministry through a student leader who senses God’s call to lead a small group Bible Study on the campus. This small group will be integrated with what we are already doing at CSUN—conferences, leadership development, and fellowship meetings.

After having met with the young leader, I am excited for what this season holds for us. She has a heart and conviction to love the campus and to connect them in a community that has blessed her abundantly.

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Developing a Community

Fall Conference

In my tiny little office, I have a picture posted on the wall. It’s a picture taken back in 2001 of my first Bible Study Small Group here at Cal State Northridge. There are six black students, an asian woman (my co-leader at the time) and myself, smiling for the camera at a Bible Study outing at Chuck E Cheese.

I have kept that picture on my wall for several reasons: First, it reminds me of the mission to build community of believers on the campus; second, it reminds me of the call to love all students, particularly students of color; and third, it keeps me in check that whatever happens on campus and whatever people say (or curse), community is possible at a commuter school.

For six years, I have heard lies about developing community at a school that has the highest drop-out rate in the state (39%), the longest average graduation rate (over 7 years), and a diversity that drew the attention of President Clinton in 1995. Is it really possible to build a multi-ethnic witnessing community on this campus?

This past weekend, God kept the windows of the spiritual realm open. Thirty-two students spent their weekend with us at Catalina Island. It was not an easy weekend. On Friday night, the channel (which we have to cross by ferry to get to the island) was closed for the rest of the evening due to high winds. We scrambled to keep the conference alive at a local church. As the conference director (in addition to leading my community of students), I felt stretched in my leadership and my energy level was spent by Sunday afternoon (I slept for 14 hour that night).

But praise God for what he has shown me about our community! Thirty-two students is nearly three times larger than any community of CSUN students that have stepped foot on the Island since 2001. Last spring, we had one white student at our conference, but this past weekend, we may have had the largest ratio of white students of any of the other campuses present. And our Black and Latino students continued to be invested in building the community.

Older students were moved by the faith and commitment of younger students, and younger students appreciated the perseverance of those of us who have “stuck it out” to develop the community. One student testified in tears that she is glad we didn’t give up because she needs this community on the campus. With tears, I appreciated her gratitude and expressed how my heart breaks for the thousands of students like her who live with loneliness on our campus because they have not been connected to a loving, witnessing community.

One student (from a nominal Jewish background) found new life. It was beautiful to see the community surround him with love and affirm his choice to respond to Jesus in his life.

I love what God is doing on the campus and through InterVarsity Matador Christian Fellowship. I am convinced that community is a blessing to the community itself and to our campus. God is doing a new thing and my prayer is for wisdom in leading and stewarding the vision of this community.

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